Thursday, 18 October 2007
jialat
aiyos jialat sia...
ive been reading people's blogs and a number of them are thinking through their lives up till now.. hmm makes me wonder, what have i done to make them feel happier.. and well, ive gotten down to... nothing.. kinda sad huh, but yeah, its the cruel fact. i mean, im a rather happy person right now, (minus the fact that im super bored..) but maybe some other people might not be as happy as i am.. somehow, it leads me thinking that the human nature somehow comprises of "selfishness" inevitably..
when we're all happy and contented with our lives, we seem to forget to be empathetic. be it towards our friends, or even closer, our own family.. even when we are upset and troubled, we also seem to forget that they too have their own emotions and moments when theyre down in the dumps.. its sensitivity and empathy which make this world go round..
of course, theres no need to look at the flashbacks going to and fro in front of you right now, and feel ashamed of what youve done or what you didnt manage to achieve.. its perfectly fine to make mistakes, isnt it? ive committed my fair share of deeds and also stumbled umpteen times.. but that doesnt label me as being weak, it only makes me stronger..
and im sure that many of you out there are like me.. we're all learning to be stronger as we go.. also, im absolutely sure that when we reach the age of 80, (erm, i dont think the most of us will make it till there though..haha!) we would have learnt to be become so strong, that even the strongest man in the world couldnt crush us.. =)
we could all still be childish at some things, but at least we would have learnt to think for others, empathise with them, feel for them and maybe let them know us too.. i think thats being strong, isnt it? not standing solely on your own and avoiding problems, not going with the flow, but to have your own standpoint, yet being able to take others' reactions and emotions, plus the consequences, into consideration.. =)
to be so human, yet so unlike human..
we all learn, and we dont stop till we're totally lying in our coffins.. =)
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your supergirl.
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